Wedding ideas plz help...?

Ok so I'm going to have a small wedding but big reception. I want to have the in the smae building..But don't get how that would work do u move the tables in after the wedding or just have the guess seated and looking one way?? Also i'm not going to have a bridel party or grooms party or flower girl or any of that stuff. But would it be ok to ask the close faimly brothers sisters and there faimlies to dress up more then thye normally would? I'm not talking like prom dress up just alittle more then u would to go to church. And since i'm not have'in anyone who sits at the head table with me and my "then" husband....If u can help me that would be GREAT...and any ideas u can give me...I have 2 kids that are mine but they see my boyfriend as daddy and me and him have one on the way which WILL be born before the wedding

Wedding ideas plz help...?
I liked the other answers, just wanted to add that you can have a sweetheart table just for the two of you.
Reply:Go out and search for venues. When you talk to their representatives ask them if they can accommodate both events and how that works; the process will vary by location. For my wedding, the staff changed the ceremony room into the dance floor while we dinned in another area.





As for dress, you really can’t, in good taste, dictate what anyone wears – aside from a wedding party who expects to be told what to wear.





I have no idea what you’re asking in relation to your kids, sorry.
Reply:thats a bit jumbled haha but from what your saying





why dont you have a room to have the wedding,then get everyone outside to have pictures taken, then while your all outside have the tables set up by staff








also of course you can get people to dress up, after all it is your wedding








finaly





...I have 2 kids that are mine but they see my boyfriend as daddy and me and him have one on the way which WILL be born before the wedding





i dont understand this bit :/


sorry





:)
Reply:Have little circular tables with about 8 people on them.


Dear, everybody HAS to dress up more than they normally would. Its a wedding!


It sounds fantastic the way u have planned it!


GO FOR IT!!