Is is weird that I have a ton of my wedding planned out even though i'm 15?

I have like where I want it picked out: On a beach somewhere fab.


The date: May 30, 2020


And I have the type of dress I want and I know what I want the reception to be like. I know what type of flowers I want and what kind of chairs! Am I crazy? I'm not like Monica on FRIENDS and have like a binder filled with stuff, but I have some pictures saved onto a Microsoft Word thingy. I don't talk about it ever, but I think about it alot! I mean if i'm bored in class i'll think over beaches I can have it at! lol When did you guys start planning yours?





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Is is weird that I have a ton of my wedding planned out even though i'm 15?
Honey, I've been planning my wedding since I was 4... and I'll tell you alot of my ideas have changed depending on the person I was dating (if we were serious). I think picking a specific date is a little unreasonable because you don't know when you'll meet the person you want to marry. Just keep these things in mind and when you find the right person, you'll have a good idea of what you want... never hurts to be a little prepared!
Reply:No not weird. All girl plan their weddings early. The funny part is that we change it when we actually to get married. Have fun but don't let it consume you.
Reply:No, you're not weird. Its great to dream about what you want your wedding to be like. Sometimes dreams keep people going. I've known how I've wanted my wedding since I was 17. I didn't have a binder or anything, but thats a good idea..
Reply:No, not weird, but i would recommend getting another hobby nonetheless.
Reply:Most girls dream of their weddings from the day they first go to one or even know whay one is, I know I did!


Though your date may end up off, never to early to KNOW what you want. It takes tons of planning, think of the $ too.


Also, give some though into what you WANT in a husband! That's what really lasts!


Hey I sharred my dreams with my then boyfriend, and he made them ALL come true! He is the most I'd dreamed of in a husband. I(I had my dress and bouquet etc. long before we set a date!) He even takes out the trash! Said I didn't do trash and he agreed before we were engaged! Has taken care of it every since!
Reply:It's not weird. Please understand, however, that your future hubby might have some plans of his own.
Reply:Its all in good fun to have it all figured out. I dreamed about mine all the time when I was younger. I just got married April 8th this year and when i was 13 i always wanted the veil over my face so my new hubby could remove it. Well guess what!??! I didnt even wear a veil!!!! So things change as years go on, but that just means that dreams improve!!!!! Keep on Dreamin baby!
Reply:It's not wierd and you will probably change your mind once you actually start to get married and find that your plans and interests have changed by the time you have found that "someone" and considering you are 15 and your wedding won't be for another 14 years if it is in 2020, there are many things that can happen. The most important thing being that you may not even meet that someone or he may not be quite ready for the total committment of that yet. Men have a more difficult time with the forever thing than women...less so now than in the past...but they still do. I never really had my wedding planned out. My boyfriend is more the one who thinks about that than me.
Reply:Well being excited is fine,thats normal..but knowing the exact date isn't and the year, be sure to cocentrate on the man when u find him, not the more detailed things, it will all come into play if hes the one:)
Reply:sure get it started now
Reply:no its not weird. i dont remember when i started planning my wedding. i think i was around your age. im now 24 and married. iv always wanted a wedding at a castle, but never happend. well i was realllly close to a castle. just couple blocks away. it was way too hot to go up to the castle and have the wedding so we kept it in a church. but we did go up to the castle for couple minutes and took pictures. iv always wanted a dress made from lace. so i never found one like the way i wanted it and i custome made it.


you can dream right now and plan your wedding. nothing wrong with that. but just keep in mind that by the time you do get married the style will change big time and you will want to have a wedding thats in style. but its all up to you. have fun now while your single. being married can be really hard and stressful. but wonderful too
Reply:all girls begin planning their wedding. im 22 and not engaged yet but in a serious relationship and always think about it. there are things you like now but will totally change in 2020. just dont overdo yourself to where you get depressed about not getting married right away....ya know??
Reply:mine was just dreams of walking down the aisle with my dad and kissing my husband when the vows are done.and dancing alone in his arms .but your so cute to plan all this so early.You'll be a good wedding planner.
Reply:no
Reply:You probably shouldn't get your heart set on a date. That's a long time away, it could happen sooner or later than that. I think a lot of girls start thinking about that stuff early on. But don't forget, you have a whole life ahead of you. Have some fun before you get married. At least you're not planning on getting married at too young of an age! I think that's smart. Make sure you discover yourself before you get tied down.
Reply:Not weird at all. Most woman plan out there dream wedding before they even have a boyfriend or groom in mind. I started planning mine probably before i was 15, and over the years have just changed it up a little. I am 28 now. Still not married though. So sad.
Reply:I think all women have some idea in their mind at some point about their dream wedding and things will change as you see new ideas and yous man's preferences.





Now if you hasd the binder that would be a little weird
Reply:That's very normal, almost every woman I know did the same thing when she was young. Besides all that, it's fun!
Reply:Girls always dream about their wedding, and even make plans. Just remember a couple things: One: don't be surprised if you change your mind as you get older! and two: the wedding date part is a little weird due to the fact that you might not find somebody that soon, or you might decide to wait. Just keep an open mind! Planning a wedding is fun!!!
Reply:No you aren't weird. I had my entire wedding planned to the T when I was your age. My real wedding looked nothing like it. It was a million times more beautiful. I think the date is a little weird, but totally harmless. YOu can't judge when you'll fall in love. I started having pretend weddings in my room when I was like ten. Complete with Ken as the preacher and stuffed animal guests set in little pew like rows. Its fine. Keep dreaming about it. You'll be so much happier when your real wedding turns out more brilliant then your wildest dreams.
Reply:I would say thats weird. To think about it and stuff is normal, but to go all out like that is a bit much considering you'll probably change your mind alot in the next like 14 years or so and your wedding plans includ what your future husband wants too, not just you. I mean I thought about mine alot and my wedding was NOTHING like I pictured it to be and I realize now that how I pictured it was just way too much. I got married when i was only 19. Didnt see that one coming and I had a small wedding with just a few people when I had planned for a big 200 person wedding. Your 15. Think about other things like school, clothes and friends. You have plenty of time to grow up and plan a wedding.
Reply:What's sad is that despite all your hard work, when you do actually get married, you will probably change your mind on everything. I didn't plan my wedding until I was engaged - because there's always a chance you won't get married and then you wasted all this time!! Sounds like you need a job - something to keep you busy.
Reply:No your not crazy...every normal girl dreams about thier wedding all the time...but you need to keep in mind by 2020 alot of things are gonna be different...different styles,the beaches might not be so fab....but its always good to plan ahead...
Reply:You can't really pick out the date. Other than that everything sounds good . I always thought that I would get married after I graduated from high school and I did. so I guess its possible
Reply:IT is every girls dream to plan her wedding, your not weird. You just wabt your dream wedding when it comes.
Reply:I vote for weird. I just got engaged and i still don't want to think about it.
Reply:i don't think it is weird I'm 15 and i dream about it sometimes it is up to you and if you want to start planing yours right now now one can tell you your not allowed and if people think your weird don't believe them because you will think your weird
Reply:It's not wierd at all to plan things out like you, I never planned out a wedding myself, but my fiancee has known what she wanted ever since she was a little girl.
Reply:haha! me too. im 14 and i love planning it. i know where its going to be, the reception what songs and food. Mabye we are crazy. or mabye we will be wedding planners! Im not sure. but im with ya girl.





P.s- I love friends, i totally think that episode was funny when she pulled out the huge binder with everything catagorized. hehehe
Reply:all girls think about their wedding- this is normal


Just don't set yourself up for disappointment. Also sometimes the wedding gets more important than the relationship.


It is fun to dream, just don't turn it into a nightmare
Reply:Weird no. Obsessive yes. If you continue to obsess over these "plans" and they do not come to fruition (come true) you could become depressed. Why would you want to focus and devote some much time for something that may never happen? Hate to burst your bubble, kid, but life doesn't not always work out the way you plan. Besides you're only 15 years old. Way too young to be thinking about any of these things. How about focusing on going to college getting an education and job to finance that wedding? It's 2006 not 1956!! You've got options...use 'em.

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