Planning my own wedding?

Ok I am in Barrie On Canada and I don't know where to start. I know we are getting married on jan 19th 2009 and we talked the priest at a local catholic chruch and he said he will do it but I dont know where to start.......like flowers, invitations, reception stuff, traditions etc,....my maid of honour has cancer so shes in and out of the hospital and cant help much and my mom works alot sooo kind of doing this alone.

Planning my own wedding?
Okay, so I know it seems like a lot but it is a matter of just thinking it through. Start with the big things. For example, you will want to get the stuff that books up quickly. This would include the wedding site, ceremony site, videographer, photographer, caterers, hair/makeup and florist. In regards to the caterer, hair/makeup, florist, videographer and photographer, don't worry so much about getting specific centerpieces or menus picked out. Find vendors whose style and previous work you like; you can worry about the exact details as they come along, you just want to start getting people booked.





Next, you should probable move on to the attire. Tuxes or suits aren't a big deal yet, but you should start working on getting the wedding dress and bridesmaids ordered. This is just a start, but here's a website with more details.





http://www.todays-weddings.com/planning/...





Another good thought maybe getting a wedding planner; they are used to working with a types of budgets and situations and could make things a lot easier.





Good luck!
Reply:congrats and i hope your maid of honor will be ok





i would use this it looks very detailed





http://www.northcoastjournal.com/wedding...
Reply:CONGRATULATIONS!!!





You've really taken the first big step, you've set the date and you have the priest arranged. You can now start planning all of the fun stuff! I know it really can seem overwhelming at first, but if you relax, stay organised and plan carefully it shouldn't be too stressful.





First, you need to know what your budget is - that will define every other decision you make for your wedding. Once that's decided, you can play with everything else.





DRESS:


You need to organise your dress (but I bet you've already got some idea of what you want), you need to be aware that some companies have a 6 month lead time for ordering, so you'll need to get on that as soon as possible so you have time for fittings and alterations. Please remember to read the contracts when you're buying your dress, don't let them bully you into signing without reading it and find out everything that is included...and more importantly what ISN'T included.





RECEPTION


You need to look at reception venues and decide what fits your budget, your theme (usually a colour) and your personal style. Do they offer catering? If your budget is tight will they let you self cater? Can you supply your own alcohol?





INVITATIONS


Send either invitations or 'Save The Date' cards out as early as possible so that people know to mark it in their calendars.


These days, the print at home (or on the sly at work lol) invitations are so good they give some printing companies a run for their money. Stores like http://www.save-on-crafts.com are great, not only for invitations but for inspiration on reception decor and money saving tips.





FLORISTRY


Churches usually have flowers delivered so you may not need, or want, to decorate that venue. Your bouquet colours will likely depend on your dress and your theme - approach your local florist and ask about their wedding packages. Ask the church who does their flowers - it's often not a florist but a paritioner who loves flowers, you may be able to save some real money by finding local ladies flower arranging groups too.





CAKE


These usually require booking well in advance - ask for recommendations from friends or family that have been married, never sign on a baker without tasting their cake first!





There are some wonderful wedding websites that provide a wealth of information about planning your wedding and I would advise buying a wedding planning diary as soon as possible to keep track of everything.





Check out some of the following sites for more information:





http://www.theknot.com


http://www.cheap-wedding-success.co.uk ( a British site, but if you're on a budget there's LOADS of information on small, inexpensive but not 'cheap' alternatives).


http://www.bridesdiary.com.au/ (An Australian site with some great tips)


www.canadianbride.com (Great tips again for Canucks)





And of course...HERE. There's loads of Brides, Mothers of Brides, Grooms, Former Brides and even a random Wedding Planner, Cake Decorator and Florist or two on here. We're all happy to help with advice.





Good luck; and remember, it's a wedding...enjoy it, have fun!
Reply:The following websites are going to help you plan your wedding. Congratulations!


www.theknot.com


www.brides.com





Congratulations!
Reply:Good for you for asking for help. My daughter just planned her wedding in 3 months. Not any reason except she wanted to get married. She was a wonder woman at looking things up and asking lots of questions. The best person to help us was our Photographer. she was god sent and suggested so many things we did not think about. There are lots of books and web sites that will help guide you through the whole process. If money permits there are wedding planners but heck, make it you own and do what YOU want. I was told by many that my daughters wedding was one of the most beautiful weddings they attended. The ceremony, dinner and dance was all in the same hotel but in different rooms. The out of town people loved that they did not have to leave to go anywhere. We were lucky enough to have a "decorating rehersal." Our Photographer was there to get to know the important people and help guide us through it all.


My suggestion is to start with the hall or banquet center then work on the rest from there. Whatever you do don't stress yourself out. The important thing is that you will be married and that was the highlight of the whole day for my daughter.


Watch Bridezilla and see what NOT to do.


Good luck and Congrats to you all.
Reply:1. Is budget. Get an idea of how much you want to spend on the ceremony (dress, tuxes, flowers, decor, paying the people, etc), reception (rentals, decor, etc), invites, etc. Start with deciding what things you want to rent so you can get on the rental list ahead of time so you don't miss out on cool things you want to rent for your wedding (punch bowl/fountain, chocolate fountain, isle runners, columns, candelabras, etc). Also start with looking for a dress, even though it seems far in advance, it can take up to 6 months for them to get your dress ordered and all alterations made. It took 4 months for my dress order and alteration. If you want to have the dress of your dreams you need to start in advance. Next, make sure you don't need to do premarital counseling and get that going ahead of time if you do. Start making the invite list and gather addresses. The invites need to be decided upon in advance b/c these also take a few months to get sometimes. Then begin thinking of extras after this such as bouqet types, gifts for guests, etc. Do as much early as possible to prevent being rejected by a place b/c they already have everything rented out for weddings or can't get your dress or invites in time or already are making cakes for a different wedding, etc. Try to decide who will play the piano or organ or sing, etc.
Reply:Congrats on the engagement! I would start with setting the ceremony and reception sites. Then visit www.theknot.com... this website saved my life during my wedding planning. It has check lists and time lines. But don't be overwhelmed by all the items on the lists, you can eliminate them as needed or as completed.





Have fun planning and don't get too hung up on little things as many brides can often do... also... if someone offers to help, as your help sounds limited... graciously accept and let others help you if you can. Just remember what you want and don't let others talk you out of the wedding you would like.

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